A Space of My Own 我的空间

Second half of CNY

Posted on: February 23, 2010

My 2nd part of Chinese New Year is spent trying to catch up with
datelines I so blissfully ignored during recess week. The fact that I
have to battle ants on my study table, and a horrible internet
connection doesn’t help much either. Fortunately Jon placed a modem in
my room, so my connection is quite stable now.

I think my weak
foundation in integration is killing me now. Really need to master this
if I need to get my work done quickly. And nanotechnology in medicine
is kind of driving me mad now. But at least it’s only article reading,
and not that much of calculation.

On the other hand, I’m really
enjoying my Biz modules. I still think that MNO project is a bother
because it’s rather hard to get things done within a short timeline.
But at least the project requires us to help other people which is a
good thing. And I get to practice writing email-proposals again.
Somehow I’ve been doing this non-stop since I was in Year 2. Learning
more and more ways to communicate with people better, and manage teams.
Terminologies are a pain though, but once you remember them they can be
oh-so-interesting. And my MNO tutor handed me a big compliment
regarding my role play yesterday (giving performance appraisal). He’s
really very nice. I rarely get compliments from teaching staff in NUS
so those I get I remember well. I even remembered that a lab TA praised
me once for using my fumehood properly and asked my classmates to
follow suit.

The more I go through my biz modules, the more I
realize that my need for affiliation and recognition is higher than I
thought. Like the compliment thing – the type I like to get is not ‘oh
you play the piano so well’, but rather ‘you brought out the feeling of
that song’, or ‘ i like the way you handled that’. Specific compliments
encourage me more. And on the other hand, I know this is horrible, but
I don’t handle criticism that well. To be honest, listening to
criticisms make me very uncomfortable and I shun them. Some people
attach criticisms with adjectives – you did this because you’re
‘weird’ or ‘lazy’ or stuff like that. Somehow critisms that refer to an
action (e.g. not clearing up my study table), is more effective, and
don’t hurt as much compared to those that targeting an attribute (lazy
and disorganized because my table is messy). I know that I AM lazy and
disorganized because I didn’t clear up my study table. But it helps not
to mention it you see. And another reason why my table looks like a war
zone is because I don’t have time to clean it (yea, excuses I know).

Simon taught us this song which he put on his blog last Friday:


know, I’d never notice the words were so special until he pointed them
out. I need to have a sense of personal mission for God.

Okies 🙂 Back to integration.


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  • Li S.T.: Hope to have more songs composed by you. Hey can I listen to your composed song?
  • JACQUELINE: hehe....when will u be back to Sg ?


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